As a Jewish American, we are hart broken about what Israel has become. The fanatical religious right-wing has joined with those who gain power and profit from keeping the conflicts from ending.
Hamas has not been very helpful either.
Really, the fault lies with the rest of the world. Many major powers use this conflict as a proxy fight for their own differences. They could stop it in six months if they really wanted to.
They care as much about the Jews and Palestinians as they do about the Uyghurs. or the Rohingya.